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Tell them upfront this is not a review. It is a listening session.
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Do not fill silences. The best answers come after a pause.
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Note not just what they say but how they say it. Hesitations matter.
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These are prompts, not a checklist. Follow threads that open up off the list.
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Write up notes shortly after, while the feel of the conversation is still fresh.
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What they share stays with you. Make that clear before you begin.